CBT, ACT, DBT and Somatic Therapy Explained: A Registered Psychologist's Guide

Written by Natasha Kiemel-Incorvaia, Registered Psychologist (PSY0001977411)

It is 10pm and you finally get to sit down on the couch. Your shoulders ache, your jaw feels tight, and your brain will not stop replaying the same conversation over and over... for literally the sixth time. You type "what is CBT" into Google and are hit with a wall of acronyms. Your stomach drops and you feel like hitting your head against a wall. You know you probably need support. You just do not want to waste what little energy you have left on something that is not the right fit for you, and that is exactly what this post is for.

This article offers general information and education only. It is not a substitute for personalised psychological or medical care. If you are experiencing significant distress, please speak with your GP or a registered psychologist.

Why Can Understanding Your Options Help You Decide?

When you are already stretched so thin, having to research therapy modalities can feel like one more task you do not have the least bit of energy for. But a little bit of knowledge can go a long way, and having even a small understanding of the main approaches tends to be worth it. Not so you can diagnose yourself or arrive at an appointment with the answer already decided, but so you can have an idea of what might best support your difficulties and show up able to ask specific questions when you speak with someone.

Understanding the difference between therapies is less about which one is "best" for you and more about knowing what each one focuses on, such as thoughts, behaviours, emotions, body sensations, relationships, or some combination. A therapy that targets where you think you are stuck is often a more useful starting point than taking a stab in the dark, or for some people, trusting someone who does not know what it is like to live in their mind and body.[2,3]

What Is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and How Does It Work?

CBT is probably the most commonly recognised of the four approaches and also one of the most misunderstood. It is not positive thinking or telling yourself everything will be fine. It is a structured approach to noticing the connection between what you think, how you feel, and what you do, and then gently experimenting with what changes when you shift one of those.[2,3] There are also times when CBT is not the first place to start, for example when someone has significant trauma in their history and their nervous system does not yet feel safe enough to go straight into examining thoughts.

In practice, a CBT session might involve mapping out a recent situation that triggered anxiety or low mood, slowing it down enough to identify the automatic thought that occurred before you had a chance to question it, and then exploring whether that thought is accurate, useful, or something you want to keep acting on. From there, you might experiment with a small behavioural change such as facing something you have been avoiding, adjusting a routine that is keeping you stuck, or building in something that used to feel nourishing before life got so busy and everything felt so hard.[2,3]

What Is Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)?

ACT helps you learn to notice a thought without over-analysing it or judging yourself for having it, and without then being controlled by it. ACT can help you make room for discomfort without letting it determine every decision.[3]

This is particularly important for women who have already spent years trying to think their way out of anxiety or stress, have done all the "right" things, and are still stuck. ACT does not ask you to convince yourself that everything is fine. It asks what you actually care about, and what small step you could take towards that, even while the difficult feelings are still present.[3]

What Is Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)?

DBT was originally developed for people who experience very intense emotions and found that standard talk therapy was not enough. There is often a misconception that it is only for people with personality disorders. This is not correct. DBT can be helpful for a wide range of difficulties, including for people whose nervous systems react more strongly and take longer to return to baseline, where learning to work with that rather than fighting it is more helpful than trying to think or will your way to calm.[4]

The skills DBT teaches organise around four areas. Mindfulness, which is learning to notice what is happening inside and around you without immediately reacting to it. Distress tolerance, which is getting through moments of high intensity without making things worse, because sometimes the most important thing is simply not pouring petrol on the fire. Emotion regulation, which is understanding what emotions actually are, what triggers yours, and what makes you more or less vulnerable to being overwhelmed by them. And interpersonal effectiveness, which is how to ask for what you need, hold your limits, and stay in relationships without losing yourself in them.[4]

If you recognise yourself in the description of emotions that feel very big, very fast, and difficult to settle from, it may be worth discussing with a psychologist whether DBT or aspects of it could be helpful for you.[4]

What Is Somatic Therapy and How Does It Differ From Talk Therapy?

Most therapy asks you to talk about what is happening. Somatic approaches start somewhere different.[5]

The underlying premise is that stress and trauma do not just live in memory and thought. They live in the body, in patterns of tension, bracing, shutdown, and disconnection that can persist long after the original stressor has passed, and I am talking about decades sometimes. If you have ever noticed that talking about something difficult makes your chest tight, your breathing shallow, or your body want to disappear into the chair, that is what somatic approaches are interested in. Not as a problem to fix, but as information to work with and work through. You do not need to spend your life carrying the legacies of trauma stuck in your body and impacting your present.[5,6]

How Can These Approaches Work Together?

The honest answer to "which one is right for me?" is usually "probably more than one", and probably not in a neat sequence a psychologist can lay out for you in your first appointment. In the therapy room, people's difficulties rarely sit in one category. For example, you might notice persistent worry and self-criticism, physical tension you cannot seem to release, emotions that feel too big for the situation, and a sense of being completely disconnected from what you actually want, sometimes all in the same week, sometimes in the span of ten minutes. This is why working with a clinician who is trained across multiple therapies can be so helpful. And do not worry, it is rare that a clinician will hear your stories and symptoms and think "oh damn, this is too much, I can't help them."

Let us break it down into an example.

The CBT framework might help you work with thought patterns that are driving overcommitment. ACT skills might help when you cannot change the situation but need to stop being consumed by it. DBT strategies might be what you reach for when things feel particularly intense. Body-based work might be the thing that finally helps your nervous system settle when thinking and talking alone have not been enough, or you might need another trauma therapy such as EMDR (learn more about it here).[2,3,4,5]

The most useful thing you can do at this point is not to identify the right acronym. It is to have a conversation with a psychologist who can help you understand what is happening in your particular situation and what approach, or combination of approaches, might suit it.

What Is the Difference Between Therapy and Psychoeducation?

Individual therapy is tailored to you specifically and can be adjusted as things shift. It also needs to be carried out within a professional and ethical framework by a registered, trained health professional such as a psychologist.[2,3,4]

Psychoeducational resources and online courses are a different kind of support entirely. They provide general information, frameworks, and skills that many women find genuinely helpful for navigating stress, anxiety and burnout in daily life, and they are designed to be used that way, not as a replacement for individual psychological care where that is needed. Some women use them alongside therapy. Others use them independently. Both are valid, and the right starting point depends on what you are dealing with and what feels accessible right now. If you would like to explore that option with someone you know is a registered psychologist, you can find Natasha's online psychology courses for women at natashacourses.com.

When Should You Seek Individual Psychological Support?

There are many reasons to reach out for support from a psychologist and I cannot possibly name them all here. For example, it may be a gut feeling and a consistent thought that you cannot do this alone anymore, that something needs to change, and that the problem is now bigger than what you can handle by yourself. Or maybe you are stuck in a pattern, you know what the pattern is, you have spent a lot of time trying to figure out why, and you still have not been able to change it on your own.[1]

There are times however when the first step is not to book with a psychologist but to start with a GP. This would be if you are experiencing significant changes in sleep, appetite, weight, or physical symptoms such as chest pain or breathlessness and are unsure what is causing them. A GP can help rule out physical health conditions that may be contributing, such as thyroid problems, anaemia, perimenopause or sleep disorders, and can support referrals to appropriate clinicians from there.

If you are in crisis, feeling unsafe, or worried about harming yourself, please contact emergency services (000 in Australia) or Lifeline on 13 11 14 rather than waiting for an appointment.

Your Next Step

Do not let this blog fool you. You do not need to show up to your appointment with the right acronym or a clear idea of what will help you.

What you need is a space to talk through what is actually happening with someone who does know all the acronyms (so many that their brain sometimes malfunctions). Showing up is often the hardest part. Once you do, the right approach tends to become clearer and you do not have to figure it out by yourself anymore.

Book a Telehealth Appointment

Sessions draw on an integrative approach informed by CBT, ACT, DBT and somatic tools from sensorimotor psychotherapy, adjusted to your specific situation rather than applied from a template. They can also involve other therapies Natasha is trained in that were not covered in this post, such as EMDR and narrative therapy.

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From there, if you would like additional skills and frameworks to support your wellbeing in daily life, you can explore Natasha's online psychology courses for women at natashacourses.com, designed to sit alongside whatever kind of support you are working with, at your own pace.

If You Need Urgent Support

If you are in crisis, feeling unsafe, or worried about harming yourself, please contact:

In Australia: Emergency services: 000  |  Lifeline: 13 11 14  |  Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636  |  1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732

If you are outside Australia, please contact your local emergency services or a crisis line in your country.

Written by Natasha Kiemel-Incorvaia, Registered Psychologist (AHPRA: PSY0001977411). Natasha is the founder of Gracefully Redefine You (natashacourses.com) and Graciously You Psychological Services. She works with women navigating stress, anxiety, burnout and nervous system dysregulation through self-paced psychoeducation courses and individual telehealth appointments.

References

[1] Australian Bureau of Statistics. National Study of Mental Health and Wellbeing, 2020-2022. Canberra: ABS; 2024.

[2] Butler AC, Chapman JE, Forman EM, Beck AT. The empirical status of cognitive-behavioural therapy: a review of meta-analyses. Clinical Psychology Review. 2006;26(1):17-31.

[3] A-Tjak JGL, Davis ML, Morina N, et al. A meta-analysis of the efficacy of acceptance and commitment therapy for clinically relevant mental and physical health problems. Psychotherapy and Psychosomatics. 2015;84(1):30-36.

[4] Linehan MM. DBT Skills Training Manual. 2nd ed. New York: Guilford Press; 2015.

[5] Bloch-Atefi A, Smith J. The effectiveness of body-oriented psychotherapy: a review of the literature. Psychotherapy and Counselling Journal of Australia. 2015.

[6] Rohricht F, Papadopoulos N, Priebe S. An exploratory randomised controlled trial of body psychotherapy for patients with chronic depression. Journal of Affective Disorders. 2013;151(1):85-91.